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One way to motivate your child to get out of the house is to promise to pay or subsidize some of his or her living expenses for a period of time. For example, you might agree to pay for his or her auto insurance and cell phone bill for maybe three months after your child moves out. This would serve to sort of cushion the blow as it would reassure your child that he or she would not be required to suddenly begin paying for everything.
If all else fails
What could you do if all else fails and your child simply fails to move out? You need to think through this possibility in advance and decide what it is you would be willing to do. The tough love answer would be to simply pack up all of your child's possessions and put them out on the front yard. If you are unwilling to do this, you're not left with many options. You could always change the locks though this would also be a very drastic solution. On the other hand, you could sit down with your child once again, discuss his or her objectives in life. You might require that he or she contributes to your cost of living or mandate that he or she clean your entire house each week. Beyond this, you just may have to reconsider your exit strategy.
Finally, here’s a brief video with some good advice about handling this problem or, better yet, how to keep it from happening in the first place.